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If you’re curious about air suction toys or clitoris suckers, you’ve probably noticed that air pulse devices are gaining traction and becoming a favorite amongst people who are seeking a different kind of stimulation.
Unlike a traditional vibrator, pulsating clitoral stimulators provide indirect air stimulation, which is simultaneously both gentler and more effective, simulating the feeling of oral sex. This new genre of pleasure products for people with vulvas is offering a new form of sensation that’s less buzzy, more rhythmic, and perfectly intense without overwhelming pressure.
If you’re curious about what pulsation toys are and how clitoral stimulator pulsation works, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know.
What Are Pulsation Sex Toys?
Air suction toys are designed to stimulate the clitoris using rhythmic pulses and air pressure waves, rather than a tapping sensation or buzzing vibration (although some can incorporate vibration as well). Many users (especially beginners) report that they’re much more likely to orgasm from a clitoris sucker than a vibrator. The goal of these sex toys is to offer a deeper and more unique sensation compared to traditional vibration, which some can feel is too intense or temporarily desensitizing.
Why Clitoral Pulsation Toys Are Trending in Sexual Wellness Products
While the Rose introduced many people to the clitoral suction game, there’s a new air stimulator in town: meet the Lem, taking over social media feeds and satisfying people with vulvas everywhere.
There are a few reasons why toys like the Lem are skyrocketing in popularity. Firstly, they prioritize comfort over intensity, making them the perfect choice for nervous beginners or those with sensitive bodies. Pulsation offers a new and alternative sensation to vibrators, whether you’re just looking to expand your collection or switch to something new.
They’re also a surprisingly inclusive pleasure product, working across different experience levels and bodies. While products like the Lem are designed primarily for people with vulvas, air suction toys can also be used to stimulate the nipples and are a popular choice for trans individuals seeking gender affirmation, as they fit better than strokers and may boost temporary genital growth, making the clitoris appear more phallic and pronounced.
How Do Pulsation Toys Stimulate the Clitoris?
These sex toys stimulate the clitoris without actually touching it, using air flow as opposed to vibrations with a silicone ‘mouth’ that wraps around the it and creates pressure using air. This air suction technology creates rapid pulses of air that surround the clitoris instead of pressing on it like a vibrator.
By creating a vacuum seal around the clitoris, they create the sensation of sucking and swirling providing waves of pleasure that can feel similar to oral sex. Whereas some sex toys only stimulate the tip of the clitoris, pulsating clitoral stimulators envelope the whole clitoris, which can wake up the interior nerves as well. They provide targeted precision which can offer a more intense sensation than broad vibration.
Pulsation Toys vs Traditional Vibrators: What’s the Difference?
Air suction works in a different way than vibrating or tapping toys, such as the Lolly mini wand or Berry. If you’re navigating buying air suction toys for the first time, it’s easy to get confused.
While vibrators like the Lolly Mini Wand and the Berri create a steady buzzing or tapping sensation and work on different erogenous zones, pulsation toys are designed specifically for indirect clitoral contact. They deliver rhythmic pulses of air rather than a constant vibration. Compared to vibrators that offer broad stimulation, the sensation of clitoris suckers is often described as more gradual or deeper.
Are Pulsation Toys Better Than Air-Pulse Toys?
One isn’t necessarily better than the other; it all comes down to preference and sensation. At Nancy, we believe in experimentation galore, because there’s no better feeling than discovering new desires and pathways to pleasure. That said, air-pulse toys are actually a type of pulsation toy! Pulsation isn’t an upgrade or a downgrade from a classic vibrator. It’s simply a different flavor of stimulation.
Who Are Pulsation Toys Best For?
Although they can be used for all kinds of bodies, pulsating clitoral stimulators are primarily designed for women’s pleasure, or for people who have a clitoris. Beyond that, they are an appealing option for people who are sensitive to strong vibration, beginners exploring adult toys, and those feeling sensitive due to chronic illness or hormonal changes.
They are a great way for couples to spice things up in the bedroom, either during foreplay or penetration, and can help you work towards having a blended orgasm or reaching orgasm at the same time as your partner. Clitoral stimulator pulsation is a must-try for anyone who has felt that traditional vibrators can feel overwhelming, even on the lowest setting.
Do Pulsation Clitoral Toys Increase Orgasm Intensity?
Many people who use these clitoris suckers report stronger orgasms, but this isn’t magic or luck; it’s science. Compared to direct vibration, pulsation and indirect stimulation can encourage gradual arousal buildup, dialing up the anticipation like nothing else. It also reduces desensitization and the long refractory period that some toys can have, so you’re free to have back-to-back orgasms. And finally, the power of suction stimulates the internal clitorus indirectly, leading to more sustained and complex pleasure.
Some may find that the sensation of the orgasm itself isn’t necessarily more intense, but simply different, and that it can be easier to achieve orgasm in a shorter window (many claim just a minute or two) compared to vibrators that take longer to climax. For that reason, they’re the ultimate quickie toy!
By combining all of the above, people are more likely to experience longer-lasting pleasure rather than a quick and intense spike, so in short, yes, it can make your orgasms (and the journey getting there) a whole lot better.
Are Pulsation Toys Beginner-Friendly?
Yes! In fact, they can be more approachable for beginners than larger vibrators that can feel too intense or strong. Additionally, the indirect external stimulation makes them a less overwhelming option for people who aren’t sure if they want to try penetrative toys yet. The settings on pulsation toys are more gradual, encouraging gentle exploration without any pressure or unpleasant surprises.
Where to Start With Air Suction Toys
How do you choose the best pulsation toy?
The toy you choose will depend on your needs. Some factors to consider include shape, size, and appearance. Some are round, while others have a longer handle, which can be easier for some people to use. And while larger toys can be easier to handle, smaller toys have the benefit of slipping into your luggage on your travels without taking up much space.
While some air pulse toys look like sex toys, others are discreetly designed to resemble something else. Then there are bundled options that let you maximize your pleasure with more than one sensation. When shopping for an air pulsation toy, only opt for body-safe, medical-grade silicone, which is non-porous and easy to clean.
Not sure where to start? Nancy has plenty of options that will brighten up your bedside table and help beginners start exploring. We’ve got your back with this mini sex toy buying guide below:
Lem Clitoral Massager
Meet the holy grails of pulsation toys, featuring 12 intensities and patterns. The Lem isn’t just a pleasure powerhouse; it’s also discreet and resembles a whimsical piece of food decor rather than a vibrator.
Avo Clitoral Massager
On clitoral suckers, a longer handle can be easier to maneuver for people with bigger bodies, mobility issues, or hand and wrist pain. Plus, every guacamole lover will want one in their collection.
Beginner Bliss Bundle
Why not have your cake and eat it too? If you’ve never tried a sex toy at all and are curious about both vibration and air pulsation, our beginner bundle has both our signature Lem and a contoured bullet vibrator that are great for solo or partnered play.
How to use an air pulsation play when first starting out
Don’t forget the lube
Before you use the toy, we suggest applying a water-based lube. Silicone and oil-based lubes can damage silicone toy, but there are plenty of water-based lubes that provide long-lasting moisture. And they’re not just a pleasure booster...they’re a safety tip to avoid pain and any skin irritation from chafing.
Since you’re placing a suction toy over the clitoris and essentially creating a seal, it can create some friction on non-lubricated skin. To maximize sensation and reduce discomfort, you may want to apply a few drops of lube on and around the clitoris, or rub a bit on the opening of the toy. Lube can also make the sensation of oral sex that these toys mimic feel more realistic. Once you’ve tried this, you may want to try adding in an arousal gel which can increase blood flow and sensitivity.
Start low and slow
Place the toy on your body – it may take a little time to find the right position. Then, when you turn the toy on, start on a lower setting. If you know you’re sensitive, you may want to test out what the toy feels like on its lowest setting on your arm, thigh, or a different part of the vulva to get an idea of sensation. You can employ the barrier method, where you use the toy over underwear, clothing, or a thin washcloth. As with any toy, it’s best to start low and slow before experimenting with different intensity levels and speeds.
After that, if you do feel ready to explore a bit more, experiment with positioning rather than pressure, seeing how it feels to hold the toy on an angle if one side of the clitoris is more sensitive than the other. You can try lying on your back with knees up or down, or turning on your side to see what feels most enjoyable. Give yourself time and be patient, adjusting to the new sensations. Try to stay present and mindful rather than focusing on rushing to the finish line of climax (though, we have to admit, based on our reviews, you might find yourself there anyway!)
Warm up with foreplay
You can indulge in foreplay whether you’re alone or with a partner. Set the mood by dimming the lights, putting on a playlist, and lighting your favorite scented candle. Perhaps rub your hands up and down your body, even using the clit sucker toy on your nipples. Since this kind of toy works best when the clitoris is erect, it may be helpful to build some arousal beforehand and make a full experience out of it!
Take it into the tub or shower
Nancy toys are 100% waterproof, so once you’ve gotten the hang of things a bit, you may want to see how the sensation feels underwater in the tub or with water cascading down you in the shower. You can combine with fingers, other waterproof toys, and even have a partner join you for some mutual masturbation.
A New Era of Clitoral Stimulation
Whether you’re brand new to clitoris suckers or just want to try something new in your pleasure routine, there’s no doubt that these devices differ from anything else on the market. Yes, they combine precision and comfort with indirect stimulation for a one-of-a-kind sensation, but most importantly, they encourage a more relaxed and exploratory approach to sexual wellness and self-care, which is why they should be a staple in your collection.
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